Signs to Look Out For
* Please note that these are just some signs, and domestic violence can manifest in many different ways. If you or someone you know is experiencing any of these signs, it's important to seek help.
Physical Abuse
Hitting, slapping, kicking, or any form of physical harm. This can cause visible injuries or hidden pain. Throwing things and causing potential physical harm also constitutes as physical abuse
Destruction of Property
Breaking belongings, throwing objects, or damaging possessions. This serves as a form of intimidation and control.
Isolation
Preventing contact with friends and family, controlling social activities, or limiting communication. This tactic leaves victims feeling alone and unsupported.
Controlling Behavior
Dictating clothing choices, activities, or decisions. This limits a person's autonomy and creates an environment of oppression.
Animal Abuse
Harming or threatening to harm pets as a form of control or intimidation. This demonstrates a willingness to hurt loved ones and instills fear.
Emotional Abuse
Humiliation, intimidation, or manipulation. This type of abuse can be subtle but deeply affects a person's sense of self-worth Name-calling, insults, put-downs, or constant criticism.
Threats
Threats are a common sign of both physical and verbal abuse. They could consist of intimidation through looks, weapons, dangerous behaviors, or blackmail.
Jealousy & Possessiveness
Constant accusations, checking phone or emails, or extreme monitoring of activities. This behavior stems from insecurity and a desire for control.
Unpredictable Mood Swings
Sudden outbursts of anger or unpredictable emotional shifts. This leaves victims walking on eggshells, unsure of what to expect.
Immigration-Related
Threatening to report undocumented status, withholding immigration documents, or using immigration status as leverage.
Sexual Abuse
Forced sexual activity, unwanted touching, or sexual coercion. This violates a person's boundaries and can lead to trauma. Marital sexual abuse is 100% a real thing and is a form of sexual abuse.
Financial Control
Restricting access to money, sabotaging employment, or controlling finances. This creates dependency and limits a person's options.
Blaming & Denial
Shifting responsibility for abusive behavior, minimizing the impact, or denying it altogether. This gaslighting tactic makes victims question their reality.
Stalking and Harassment
Following, monitoring, or unwanted contact after separation or during separation. This behavior instills fear and limits a victim's freedom.
Financial Control
Restricting access to money, sabotaging employment, or controlling finances. This creates dependency and limits a person's options.